A fast way to change the style of the gridlines in a gridview:
Protected Sub gwMyGw_PreRender(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles gwMyGw.PreRender
'PreRender event!
Dim tblStyle As New TableItemStyle()
tblStyle.BorderColor = Drawing.Color.White
tblStyle.BorderWidth = "2"
Dim row As TableRow
For Each row In Me.gwMyGw.Rows
Dim cel As TableCell
For Each cel In row.Cells
cel.ApplyStyle(tblStyle)
Next
Next
End Sub

Enjoy !